How To Decorate For A Wedding: Important Components To Consider
There are some very important components to consider
when determining how to decorate for a wedding. First
and foremost is the budget. Once that has been
established, then choose a theme, locations for the
ceremony and reception and, of course, a date. Generally
speaking, the timeframe for planning a wedding is a
minimum of 9-12 months. During that period, you can
learn how to decorate for a wedding.
Establishing a Realistic Budget
With input from both of you and your family members, it
is important to determine how much you’re able to
contribute to the celebration. If you’re older or
already have an established household, then you may wish
to take on the entire expense. Under all circumstances,
it is important to keep the costs under control.
Remember, the more elaborate the wedding, the more
costly it will be. As reported by several sources, the
cost for a wedding with 200 guests is approximately
$17,000! See our other article for more information
on How To Prioritize Your Wedding Decoration Budget.
Choosing a Date
The date you select for your wedding may well have a
bearing on its theme. For example, a date in December
may lend itself to Christmas decorations and colors,
while a date in July may allow you to choose a tropical
theme with very bright, festive and colorful
decorations.
The Ceremony and Reception
Will the ceremony be held at a religious site (church,
synagogue, etc.), or will it take place in a civil
setting (courthouse, private home, etc.)? The location
for the event will have a definite bearing on how you
will decorate. If the wedding is held inside church and
if the reception will be held there too, then it will be
very easy to carry the colors and style together
throughout. However, if the reception is held at a
separate venue, at a restaurant for example, then
decorating becomes somewhat more complicated.
Depending on the number of guests, what type of seating
plan will you choose? If you have flowers, will they be
placed on each table or will there be a few, single
large arrangements? If you have favors for each guest,
will they be given out upon arrival at the reception, or
will they be located next to the place settings on the
tables. When you depart for your honeymoon, will your
guests blow bubbles to send you off (rice isn’t in favor
anymore)?
Sometimes couples choose rather unique themes for their
weddings. For example, a local couple was married by a
judge aboard a riverboat. They addressed how to decorate
for a wedding of this type by finding appropriate
costumes to wear once the ceremony (traditional wedding
gown and tux) was over. The riverboat theme was carried
out during the reception and the festivities ended when
the couple departed for their honeymoon in a motorized
dinghy. Great fun!
Picking a Theme
If you’re planning to have a theme for your wedding,
there a thousands to choose from. Be sure to pick a
theme that relates to something you both like. Some
examples, usually with easy-to-find decorations,
include: Hawaiian Luau, Valentine’s Day, Summer
Solstice, Winter Wonderland, Mexican Fiesta, or
something related to your hobbies. Also consider themes
that reflect on your heritage.
Once you’ve settled on a theme, begin looking for items
that reflect on your choice. For example, if you’ve
chosen an Italian theme, you may want to find small
Italian flags to give out as favors.
Keeping it all Relevant
In deciding how to decorate for a wedding or, more
specifically, for your wedding, there are several
important elements to consider: Selecting a date,
finding a location, choosing a theme and setting a
realistic budget. Give yourselves plenty of time to plan
and make arrangements. Be flexible, in case something
doesn’t work out. Stay calm, relax and have fun!
About the Author
Valeria Vegas has a Masters degree in Writing and regularly writes for a local newspaper. She also teaches writing workshops in San Francisco and has taught high school English. As a freelance job, she corrects essays for the SAT and ACT through Pearson scoring as well as write copy for websites. She is the Associate Editor of a literary magazine, edit manuscripts for Behler publications, and works for authors independently. One of her stories was named Notable Story of 2004 by Million Writers.